Let's Talk About It!

Merry Mikki!

2008-12-23T00:07:00.001-05:00

Ignorance Angers Me

2008-11-05T09:32:00.000-05:00

Well, as we all know, the election is over; there is no hanging chad, and a clear winner has emerged.

I, for one, am glad that it is over. It has been a LONG past few months of too many commercials.

This morning, I am angered by ignorance. Jennifer received a text message last night from someone that she knows that said, “If Obama wins, we have all agreed to wear black tomorrow to mourn the death of our country.”

WHAT???

Regardless of how one chose to vote last night, I think that the text message is quite possibly the most ignorant thing that I have ever heard. Is Obama perfect? Of course not- neither is McCain. But come on people, America has clearly spoken for change, and whether we agree or not, HE IS THE PRESIDENT ELECT OF THE UNITED STATES.

Give the man a chance. He ran on the platform of CHANGE. We all agree that we need it. So give him a chance to lead our country- Give him a chance to help revive the economy, end the wars, and do something about the many problems that we have in the United States. Don’t judge his success before he even takes his oath!

I am no political genius, but here are my 3 suggestions to Americans on the day after the elections:

1. Don’t make assumptions about what MIGHT happen.

2. Stop- PLEASE STOP…making this election and the issues about RACE. He won the popular vote as well as the electoral vote. Clearly, more people voted for him other than African Americans.

3. “Ask not what your country can do for you… ask what you can do for your country.” (hm…. Seems like I’ve heard that somewhere before.)

Honor's Choir 2008

2008-11-01T17:03:00.003-05:00

Another year of St. Louis Music Educators Honor's Choir is over. They did a great job! Congratulations Bekah! You were great! (Especially on the part that only 5 of you got to sing!!)

Still Waiting for Trick-or-Treaters!

2008-10-31T18:15:00.001-05:00

Happy Halloween!

2008-10-31T16:43:00.002-05:00

Halloween has arrived, which means we have survived another week, and therefore another month. WHO HOO!

Jason's surgery went fine, and they think they accomplished what they needed to.
Bekah's foot is well on the mend finally.
Bekah sings in Honor's Choir tomorrow.
I plan to start Christmas shopping tomorrow... sigh.
This is Jen's first election that she can vote in, so the topic at our house is always, "who are you voting for.... and why?"

That is about all...

Happy Halloween.... I wonder if we will have many trick-or-treaters at this house???

quick update.... just in case

2008-10-28T21:16:00.002-05:00

Just in case anyone out there is still reading blogs, I am updating once again...

Bekah's show has ended and she is looking forward to the next audition
Bekah is looking at dual enrollment at a local college (as if she wasn't busy enough). We will likely make a decision after she takes the ACT
Bekah continues to teach drama, and is officially directing her first show!
Bekah seems to think stitches in her foot are a good idea... 2 days before her show opened!
Jennifer is working full time, and loves it
Jason's surgery for his infected hand is Thursday. OUCH!!
Jason has been bowling like a crazy man... he should go PRO!!
I am tired... work is crazy, but I wouldnt have it any other way!!
I am thinking for auditioning for "5 women wearing the same dress"

I suppose that is all for now...

I am thinking of getting a facebook.... what do you think?

The rains have stopped.... mostly.

2008-10-19T21:12:00.002-04:00

They say when it rains it pours, and goodness knows that we seem to have had our share of storms in the Harbison family. But, it seems that the rains have mostly stopped.

We have moved into the new house, and it is coming together slowly. I couldn't leave well enough alone I suppose, so I had to paint just about every wall in the house... and some needed to be primed first. It was a lot of work, but it is done. We are mainly settled, now we are just hanging things on the wall and replacing things that we had forgotten that we had lost. I guess this is why people have wedding showers... it is EXPENSIVE to buy everything all at once. But, we have been blessed, and we are doing okay.

Jason's staff infection.... well, all I know to say is EW! or GROSS! He goes back to the surgeon on Tuesday for a final decision on what happens next.

Bekah's show opens on Thursday. We are excited for her, but we all (including her) are ready for it to be over.

Jenn started her full time job and LOVES it. I am sure that she will do well.

Well, for me, it is a CRAZY time of year at work. It is budget time, and program catalog time, and development time, and marketing plan time..... and the list goes on. I love the variety of my job, and I love being busy, it is just a lot at once. It is all good.

On a more personal note, I am really missing M&D R, SH, and A, and RAW. There are a few others that I miss too, like BS, and SF, but I cant force people to remember that I exist. Oh well. Live and learn. I hope all are well.

So, we are just a few weeks from the election... anyone want to share who they are voting for? Is anyone still undecided? Does anyone still read this blog?

It's still pouring....

2008-10-09T15:22:00.002-04:00

Good news- We are in a new home, and we love it.

Bad news- Jason contracted a staff infection from the flood and while he feels fine, the infection in his hand is spreading, and he will see a hand surgeon soon so they can open it up and clean it all out.

More bad news- The girls and I were in a car accident last night. Everyone is fine... my back and neck hurt a little... but I will be fine.

Good news- We are still breathing.

You Must Be Kidding Me

2008-10-02T10:30:00.002-04:00

I feel like I have reached the end of my rope! Last night, one of our cars was broken into! They say when it rains- it pours... BUT ENOUGH ALREADY! Jason had 2 laptop computers in the trunk that he had brought home tonight to fix, but was too tired so decided to leave them so he could take them back to work today. After all, no one knew that they were locked in the trunk, so it shouldn't have been a big deal. They also took our GPS system, and my late grandmother's bowling bag.

I know I keep saying that it is just "stuff" but this is getting really old, really fast.

I AM VERY DISCOURAGED!

Ups and Downs...

2008-09-30T21:00:00.003-04:00

I just came back from a work retreat.... and here is an update:

I still LOVE my job... more and more everyday
My car cost 18.00 to fix (THANK YOU LORD!) such a weird thing.... 600 dollar transmission fix is a lot more stressful than an 18 dollar exhaust shield
Things are very sad here today... we just unexpectedly had to put my mom's dog to sleep
House update.... we are moving this weekend.... renting until the insurance people figure out their issues... it is temporary, but it will be ours for now (the lease has the option to buy)
We still need several things to set up our new place, but we will work it out
God is still is good

You must be kidding me!

2008-09-28T19:39:00.003-04:00

For 2 weeks, I have been dealing with the loss of all of my worldly possessions... and I feel like I have managed well. After all, I have my family and friends, and it is just stuff after all. But, the reality is that it was MY stuff... and OUR stuff.... but I have held my head high and done my absolute best to keep a good outlook.

Well, today that changed. I AM SUPER IRRITATED! I have had enough. Today, while I was driving, I heard this very disturbing noise. Guess what? NOW I HAVE TRANSMISSION PROBLEMS! Will someone please tell me how a car with less than 60,000 miles on it can have TRANSMISSION PROBLEMS? UGH!

No more good attitude from me- at least not for today- I would just like for something to be easy... just once!

UGH!

Many have asked...

2008-09-22T18:37:00.003-04:00

Many of you have asked about what the house was like when we were able to return to see if there was anything left. Here are a few pics for you! The first picture shows what the basement looked like. As you can see, the air conditioning ducts have fallen and the washer, dryer and refrigerator found new places to rest after the water came down.

This picture was taken in the girl's room. This is the plastic storage container that they kept all of thier "getting ready stuff" in. Needless to say, everything was trash.

Finally, here is a family favorite. This picture is of the back of the washing machine. Isn't it funny how it is supposed to make things clean and yet it is so dirty? :) This picture was actually taken before we pumped out the last 6 inches or so of water.

What a MESS! We are surviving though... it could have been SO MUCH worse.

a much needed break

2008-09-21T12:59:00.004-04:00

A good friend of mine had an extra ticket to the Eagles concert last night, and invited me to go. It was AWESOME. I have always liked the Eagles, but I absolutely love the new CD.

It was good to be out, and away from all of the current drama in my life! I am going back to work tomorrow. The Red Cross came to the house yesterday- still not sure what they will do for us... and FEMA won't help yet because we aren't a declared disaster area yet.

Thanks to all of your continued prayers.

Frustrating Friday

2008-09-19T22:40:00.002-04:00

I am not sure why we are still trying to salvage things. It has been almost a week, everything that was still in our home is mud covered and mold covered. Honestly to me, it makes NO SENSE to clean up when we already know that we will never again live there... and very little if anything will be recovered at this point.

I know that we have to do what we are doing because we won't have a final word from the insurance for at LEAST 2 more weeks, and I suppose that if a miracle happens and they don't send the bull dozer to our house... the work we are doing now will make more sense.

Forgive me for being frustrated. I just want to get back to living again. Sigh...

On another note, I'd like to thank all of my YMCA family for all of your support. I have never felt as loved and supported by a group in my entire life! I am also thankful for the few from the church who have helped and although it is distant, I am thankful for elder Mike's encouragment and support.

This too shall pass..... I HOPE!

Thursday Update

2008-09-18T14:06:00.003-04:00

Not much new to report- things are about the same. I've decided not to go back to work until next week. I am exhausted and emotional. I will download more pictures soon.

Thanks for your support and prayers.

We will be okay- God is good.

But... Can someone please tell me where Noah was on Sunday when we needed a very large boat? : )

Update

2008-09-17T22:58:00.002-04:00

It has been a rough week. Here is an update:

The house is uninhabitable
We all need Hepatitis and Tetnus shots
We have ripped out all of the carpet
We have cut out pieces of dry wall
We have tried to save as much as possible
Insurance has no intention of paying for anything
Our home will likely meet its end with a bull dozer

Our reality is that we will never again live on North Rock Hill. We are all emotional, and yet thankful that we got out with our health. Many of you have asked what we need. First and foremost, we need your prayers as we deal with our loss. We will likely need to replace nearly all of our furniture, so if you have any extra, please let me or Jason know. We seem to be okay on clothes for now, although most of our winter stuff was lost. We will cross that bridge when it gets cold. Of course all of our food was lost, but trust me, we are not going to starve! We lost a lot of "stuff" like electronics, appliances, and collectibles, but we are dealing with things pretty well. So, what do we need? Ummm....your prayers, a house (not near a creek or river please), and pretty much everything else needed to have a functional home. We will be ok no matter what happens or what gets replaced. Thank you all for your prayers, and if you want to contact us for any reason, please call Jason or me on our cells (house phone CLEARLY has been disconnected!), or email me at mrsharb@charter.net.

Love and Hugs.

A home with a view...

2008-09-15T23:10:00.002-04:00

A home with a view…

Well, as many of you know, Hurricane Ike made it all the way to the mid-west as a tropical storm. Good old Ike was kind enough to create a beautiful waterfront view for the Harbison family.

Sunday morning the entire St. Louis area was under a flash flood warning. We didn’t think much of it. Bekah came in and woke me, and said, “Mom, the rain is awesome- come see it!” I got up and went out on the porch to experience the weather first hand. After all, we just had a sewer separation system put in, and that made it a pretty certain thing that our basement would NOT be getting any water. For the first time since we moved to Ladue, I was excited about the storm.

As dramatic as it sounds, my mood changed virtually in an instant. The water kept rising and rising. Within 5 minutes it seemed that leaving our home was going to be dangerous. I told Bekah to get the things that were important to her, and to be prepared to leave. I called Jen at work and told her she had 3 minutes to tell me what she wanted me to grab of hers… Jason hurried home, and brought a few friends with him.

Bekah and I left our house, (with Mikki in hand), and walked through waist deep water to get to drier land. It was scary as we could feel the current pulling at us while trying to fight the emotion of the likelihood that we were walking away from our home for the last time.

With the firemen, we stood up the road as our water became deeper and deeper. It was a helpless feeling, but we were thankful that we were safe. Jason and the gang moved as much as possible as high as possible, before it was no longer safe to stay.

This picture shows what our front yard looked like as we left our home. It was overwhelming.

The basement was COMPLETELY full and the water covered several inches of the first floor of our home. (Not exactly sure how much yet.)

Today, we returned to the house. WOW. Our Christmas ornaments (which were in the basement) were scattered in the yard. Shoes were wedged in between furniture. Appliances were knocked over. It looked like a HURRICANE hit our house.

We don’t know what the future holds, but we have started cleaning. We ripped up the carpet today, and washed every piece of clothing that we own. We were able to save some… some was ruined. We lost a lot of “things” but I am reminded that they are just “things.” My family and I are safe, and no one got hurt.

We appreciate your thoughts and prayers.

Love and hugs to all.

Not much time to blog...

2008-09-12T21:41:00.002-04:00

Life is busy, busy, BUSY!!
There's not much time left for blogging when all of this is going on...

Yet another show for Bekah
Possible shoulder surgery for Jason
Probably new job for Jen
Lots of guitar playing for Jen, Bekah and me
Lots of song writing for me
Long hours at work for all
Lots of volunteer hours at schools in Brentwood and Ladue for Bekah
Board meetings, United Way Campaign Chair, and lots of changes at the YMCA
Car problems (thats okay- its time to get a new one anyway!)
Watching the Cardinals blow any chance they had at the playoffs
Everyone except for Jen fighting sinus infections
Super Sale at Kohls!
Taking care of Mikki
and.... ANTS IN THE KITCHEN! UGH! (i am getting ready to hire someone to get rid of the tiny little guys!)

So, that is what we are up to... how about you?

Research

2008-09-08T10:47:00.003-04:00

So, I have taken a little time to do a little research on Reform Judaism. As it turns out, I actually do believe a lot of what this religion teaches... with one HUGE exception. WHERE DO JESUS AND THE RESURRECTION FIT INTO THIS PICTURE?

I went back and looked at the test again... as it turns out... Jesus and the Resurrection don't seem to be part of the equation. Mmmm. Interesting.

I think I will stick with "a child who is loved by the one and only God!"

Interesting site...

2008-09-07T22:36:00.002-04:00

A good friend of mine and I were talking about religion tonight, and they told me about this web-site: www.beliefnet.com There is a section called Faith and Practices, and under that heading there is a quiz called "Belief-o-Matic." Despite the crazy name, the quiz asks you a series of 20 questions, and then tells you which religion fits most closely with your beliefs. It was fun to see how it linked beliefs to "religions." According to this site, my top 3 religions are:

Reform Judaism
Liberal Christian Protestant
Orthodox Quaker

So, I am a Jewish, Christian, Quaker! LOL! I like to simply call myself a child loved by the one and only God!

Feel free to share your Belief-o-Matic results if you'd like!

I learned an important lesson...

2008-09-05T23:37:00.005-04:00

... it is MUCH easier to play a guitar that fits your body instead of trying to play one that is too big!

So, I ventured to the guitar store this week, and I was so lucky to be able to work with a salesman that really wanted to help! I kept picking up new guitars- primarily based on looks (to be honest) and he kept saying, "nope- too big... nope... that one is too big too!" Apparently, I am not quite as big as I think I am. He said, "You need a smaller guitar." So, he handed me the first "smaller" one, and just like that.... I was an amazing guitar player! LOL.... okay, well, not quite... but... I could play Bm and F with NO PROBLEMS. I told him that I had never been able to do that before, and he said, "Then you have never played the right size guitar!" I wanted to buy the dark brown one (thinking of how cute it would look with a PINK strap), but guess what? TOO BIG! I was thankful that he was most concerned about the best guitar to help me want to continue my hobby instead of making a buck! The one I wanted was almost twice as expensive as the smaller one that I wound up buying.... but it fit, and it is comfortable. So, I have been practicing a lot... and I am loving my new guitar!

(I didn't even know there were different sizes before my visit to Guitar Center! GEESH! I feel silly!)

Crazy Week

2008-08-31T21:04:00.002-04:00

Well it has been a pretty crazy week! Probably the highlight of the week was our Trivia Night for the YMCA. We had over 400 people and raised a lot of money for the Mid-County Family YMCA. Although it was very tiring... it was a great night. Thanks to all of you who came out and supported us!

In other "important" news... Bekah got 8 inches of her hair cut off this week! It is so cute. It really suits her well. She looks "sassy." We will be doing new head shots soon, so I will post pictures when I can.

On another topic....WHEN DID GROCERIES GET SO HIGH? I couldn't believe it today at Dierbergs. It was unreal. Do you really think that things cost that much, or do you think people are taking advantage of us because they think that they can?

I still have not made a decision on a new guitar. I am still looking though. Does anyone out there know any good reasons NOT to buy a used guitar?

Finally, I am so sad about the hurricane situation. How much can one city take? I pray that more people got out this time, and more help will be available. I guess all we can do now is pray.

I want...

2008-08-28T20:45:00.002-04:00

I want to buy a new a guitar. But I just can't justify it...

Should I.... or shouldn't I- that is the question.

I'd like to register a complaint!

2008-08-26T19:10:00.002-04:00

Bm (aka B minor) is WAY TOO HARD to play on the guitar.

There surely must be an easy way to play that chord!!

I am going to keep trying until I get it right!

Am I the only guitar palyer who finds this chord so hard??

Unfortunate Circumstances

2008-08-24T16:01:00.002-04:00

In the past week, I have oddly received 5 emails asking me about what “happened” at the church that made me as upset and angry as I have been for some time now. Over this period of time, many of you have asked, and I have not been willing to share anything at all. I have felt that it is best that I simply shut up and let people think what they want to think. I still uphold the idea of letting people think what they want to think, but I have decided that “shutting up” about this only isolates me more from many people that I love and care about very much.

It’s really not all that dramatic, nor is it all that complicated. The long and short of it is this:

Since shortly before Brian’s “resignation” something didn’t feel quite right but I was pretty clueless about what was happening. This time was filled and surrounded by miscommunications, unwillingness to communicate openly, predetermined “beliefs,” assumptions, and a great deal of difficulty. These difficulties ultimately led to my “resignation” as well. The assumptions and unwillingness to communicate openly were very hurtful to me, and despite my efforts for resolution, I found myself ousted (for lack of a better word).

As time progressed, the bitterness and anger that I have felt have increased a great deal. In many ways, I have felt like it didn’t matter if I was part of that family or not, so it was easy to stay away.

I have sought the help of church leaders who were not involved with the situation. Unfortunately, my request has been met with a counter offer of an original meeting that would include those whom I feel purposely set out to not only hurt me, but to tear me down, judge my character, and bully me. I have felt the need to meet with those whom I believe can help to mend fences and clear the air. At this point, that has not been an option of possibility. So, I have worked hard to let go, and although I continue to struggle, I have come a LONG way in my part of healing this situation and learning to forgive those who have hurt me.

So, I appreciate all of your emails, and your questions. Please understand that it would not be appropriate for me to say any more than I already have. Also, please understand that just because of this “fall out” I remain committed to my walk with God, as I have never left Him (contrary to popular belief).

I miss many of you, but still pray for you, think about you, read your blogs (hehehe) and wonder how you are. I will continue to pray about all of this, and I would appreciate your prayers as well. God is good, and if it is supposed to work out, it will.

Love, Hugs, and Prayers to all.

Dead Beat Dads

2008-08-21T18:59:00.004-04:00

I have heard a lot of things in my life, and I am rarely shocked, but today, I was not only shocked, I was shocked to the point of anger. I just don't get some people.

I've written several times here about being an Olympic junkie. Michael Phelps is among my favorites. As I have watched him make history, I have been touched by his mother's presence and support. At the same time, like many other viewers, I have wondered.... WHERE IS DAD?

Today, I read an article about dear old Daddy Phelps. Here is what I learned...

mom and dad divorced when Michael was about 9
dad wouldn't support Michael's desire to swim because swimming is a "girl" sport
he has chosen not to be active in his son's life
although he is aware of his son making history in the pool- HE HAS NOT EVEN CALLED TO CONGRATULATE HIM!

WHAT? I just don't get it. Even he and mom hate each other with a passion- He should have been there for his son. He should have been there when he made history, and he should have been there to apologize for not supporting him.

Maybe Daddy Phelps couldn't afford to go, or maybe he has health problems that kept him from traveling... okay.... would it have been so hard to pick up the phone or send an email, and say the words that surely Michael would want to hear? "I am proud of you son."

Here is what I think:

Michael is better off without Dear Old Daddy Phelps.

Parents (mothers AND fathers) should support their kids... it doesn't matter if YOU think swimming is a "girl" sport! It matters what your CHILD wants to do with HIS LIFE-

OH- I just HATE dead beat dads... (and moms too.... but that is another story for another day)

ramblings 2...

2008-08-21T10:01:00.002-04:00

going to sleep at 8:45 p.m. and sleeping until 8:45 a.m. feels SO GOOD!

ramblings....

2008-08-20T20:36:00.002-04:00

too many late nights of olympic gymnastics makes for a very tired mommy!
bekah is going to be teaching a theatre program in public schools!!!
i am really missing a few people who are obviously missing in my life right now
i am glad i am blogging again
it is almost time for trivia night at the Kemp Auto Museum- wanna come?
i need a haircut
i am hoping to hire a membership director soon
arrogant people bother me..... even if they ARE olympians
things are very rarely what they seem
i may take a day off of work soon, and sleep ALL DAY
bekah's knee is still not better
i am too tired to combine all of these sentences into a paragraph
i hope you are having a good day...evening... night.
early to bed for me tonight... goodnight.

"Ursula" steals the show!

2008-08-18T22:08:00.005-04:00

The stage is dark, school is back in session, and Bekah is already in theatre withdrawl! Here is a picture of the screaming, Byrdie obsessed teenager from the 50's who stole the show! I am so proud of you Bekah!

If you missed it, you missed one of the best performances in Saint Louis this summer! Congratulations to Bekah and the rest of the cast and crew of Bye Bye Byrdie!

I just don't get it...

2008-08-18T19:31:00.001-04:00

First the age scandal, and now this!

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/08/18/he-kexin-gymnast-at-cente_n_119510.html

Awesome Picture

2008-08-17T11:00:00.002-04:00

I have already mentioned that I am an Olympic junkie, but these two are by far my favorites- Shawn Johnson and Michael Phelps. Do you have a favorite in these games?

Plays, School, Award, and Birthday!

2008-08-16T16:15:00.003-04:00

Sorry it has been a few days since I have written. It's been sort of crazy around here lately. I pretty much have been working a lot, going to work events/parties, taking Bekah to and from tech week, getting ready for school to start, and trying to fit in everything else. Bekah was WONDERFUL in her show. I have never laughed so hard in my entire life. She is awesome. I had many people tell me that they thought she stole the show with her energy and over the top character. She had the audience laughing so hard that some were crying. To be honest, the show as a whole was not great... there were some sound issues, and a few of the characters were really nervous, so their performances weren't great. But, all had a good time, and Bekah loved every second of it. Oddly enough, her knee injury added to her character. It was great. I will try to post pictures later.

School starts Monday. It is hard to believe that Bekah will be a sophomore. Her schedule is pretty intense, but she insists on packing it pretty tightly with the things that are important to her (like AP Euro-!!!!). I am sure that she will do well, I just wish that she wouldn't take on so much. Of course with the knee injury, she will not take dance for this semester (which saves us a ton of money), so that will be one less thing on her plate.

Jennifer is still working at the Y, and doing fairly well. She is experiencing some growing pains, but as we all remember, 19 is a tough age.

Jason is working hard and keeping busy with all of the things that he loves- so he is about the same.

Oh yeah- I got an award this week. It is the "NEVER SAY NO AWARD." It said, "The Mid-County Family YMCA is proud to present Conni Hxxxxxxx with the Never Say No Award for her tireless efforts and committment to excellence in all that she does, all of the time, for everyone!" It made me laugh... but then it made me think- Maybe I should learn to say no once in a while, and let people learn to do some things for themselves? But, at the same time, I love to help others, I love to serve... so I don't mind being known as the "lady who is always willing to help others."

Well, it is tie to head back to the TV to watch the Olympics. I absolutely LOVE watching them!

One more thing.... HAPPY BIRTHDAY JASON.... I hope you like the iPod Touch!

Randomness

2008-08-14T01:14:00.003-04:00

1. Gymnasts who are under 16 should not win Gold medals.
2. Saying goodbye to a good friend is hard to do, but planning a goodbye party is fun!
3. 4 cases of beer and 24 bottles of wine make for a very heavy load!
4. Chatter is sometimes irritating.
5. Michael Phelps is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G
6. Rules/Policies are needed- but some are stupid, and I hate enforcing them.
7. I won an award today at work... it is somewhat humerous- I'll write about that tomorrow.
8. It's too late to eat a snack- but I am hungry.
9. Focus Groups are awesome... especially when they pay you a good amount of money to give your opinion!
10. Things are not always as they seem- so look carefully.
11. I am tired, and it is time for bed!
12. Goodnight.

Mid-County Family YMCA in the News!

2008-08-11T21:45:00.001-04:00

http://http://www.ksdk.com/news/local/story.aspx?storyid=151951&catid=3

Calling all Olympic Junkies

2008-08-11T21:16:00.003-04:00

Ok, I will admit it! I am an Olympic junkie. Not only that, but I have passed it on to my daughter! (she may be worse than me!)

Is there anyone else out there holding thier breath as Michael Phelps swims, hoping and praying that he wins 8 gold medals?

Does anyone else have any speculation about the ages of the Chinese women's gymnastic team?

I love the Olympics! Is anyone else out there an Olympic Junkie? What is your favorite event?

(come on... admit it... we're all friends here!)

Frustration

2008-08-07T17:57:00.002-04:00

Why is it that everyone in the world wants to tell you exactly what to do and exactly how wrong you are, and exactly how ungodly and selfish you are until the truth comes out- and then no one has a word to say... not even, "I am sorry that I judged you."

Bekah

2008-08-06T18:32:00.003-04:00

The results are in:
GOOD NEWS: No Tears

BAD NEWS: Strained MCL and Severe Bone Contusion were evident on the MRI

WHAT IT MEANS: No surgery, No dancing. It will heal on its own in as little as 4 weeks or as much as 6-8 months! (geez!)

Bekah is happy that she won't need surgery and sad that she won't be dancing in her show next week... but happy that God blessed her with a set of pipes that makes the director want to keep her in the show instead of replace her with her understudy! So, the show is being reblocked as we speak!

We are thankful!!

I seriously have the coolest job EVER!

2008-08-05T20:20:00.002-04:00

I absolutely LOVE my job. I get to do the coolest stuff! Right now I am working on our First Trivia Night, and I am pretty excited. We have partnered with the Kemp Auto Museum for our event, and I am so excited. We hope to have 600 people there, and ALL of the proceeds go to help kids in the community.

As you may know, the best boss in the world (who I am lucky enough to call MY boss) is being transferred and I can't go with her. (at least for now) We had a great plan, but something happened, and it didn't work out, so I will be staying. I will miss her so much! Anyway, with all of these changes, my job is changing a little bit too. I am still doing all of the marketing for the branch (LOVE IT) and working the Partner Campaign, and working with members, and all of my normal stuff. But now I have some added responsibility, as Cesar has moved into the Executive Director role. I will start picking up some of the Assoc. Exec duties- so more management assignments for me... IT IS TIRING.

My job allows me to do everything I love... work with kids, be a leader, show creativity, promote Christian principles, work with people, plan parties (and lots of them!!), and I even get to sing/perform on occasion! I have been blessed!!

My job ROCKS!

(Update on Bekah...she saw the orthopedic surgeon today, and he disagreed with the original diagnosis of MCL/Meniscus tear... he thinks it is an ACL rupture. She had an MRI this afternoon... consult with the surgeon again on Thursday... until then....NO DANCING!)

Well...

2008-08-04T19:32:00.003-04:00

Well, here I am again. In a world of Facebook, and Myspace, it is hard to believe that anyone still blogs. But, since you are still out there, you are still reading, I love writing, and as always I have plenty to say- I will blog. I can't promise a new post every day, but I can promise to not let several months pass without posting.

So what is new in my world? Here are a few things you may not know...
1. I LOVE MY JOB- more on that later.
2. My sweet daughter has an appointment with a surgeon tomorrow. Can you say "torn MCL and torn Meniscus?"
3. Jason works too much! Wait... am I the pot or the kettle?
4. Jen is as crazy and fun as ever.
5. God remains faithful and loves me even when I am hard to love.
6. Bekah has a lead role in Bye-Bye Birdie

Here are a few things on my mind that you probably do know, but I am going to remind you anyway.
1. If you are reading this blog, chances are good that I still think about you, read your blog, and/or pray for you everyday. I can't name everyone here, but there a few things that simply must be said..... a.) I miss you very much a. (you know who you are). b.) Becky, your daughter is beautiful, and I love seeing her pictures on your blog. c.)MAR/DJR, your absense is painful. d.) to my buddy EC, could your family be anymore wonderful and beautiful? You are so blessed and I am so happy for you! e.)everyone else... I hope you know my feelings for you.
2. I still really despise judgemental/ know-it-all people.
3. Grace and Mercy are the only way to go.
4. I still am all about music. (guess what? I bought a guitar, and can even play it.)
5. I believe whole-heartedly in the love and compassion that exists between those with like beliefs.

I have so much to share now that I am back, but I don't think I shoul bombard you all with a 14 page blog, so we will go slow.

I will likely be updating the look of my page soon... please let me know what you think.

As always, I like to people thinking... so, here is the question of the day...

Suppose you know that Jesus is coming back tomorrow (yes, I know, we CAN"T know that, but suppose that we do). What dessert will you choose after dinner tonight, knowing it will be your last?

Lots of Love to all... until next time... ch

anyone still out there?

2008-07-24T21:02:00.002-04:00

2 questions....

1. Does anyone still check this blog?
2. Does anyone want me to start writing again?

Checking in

2008-02-23T10:38:00.004-05:00

Life is CRAZY. I am not sure what else to say other than that. I am unbelievably busy at work, working on parties and marketing campaigns. I am also busy with music, as I have been singing at a lot of parties, and fundraisers in the St. Louis area. (I think music is all that keeps me sane.) Here is the poster for our big event at work tonight.

I love my job! I get to do lots of creative stuff, and I get to plan lots of parties! Hopefully it will be a great event tonight. If you are in the neighborhood, stop by- IT IS FREE!

Other than that, life is about the same as always... working, singing, sleeping, playing taxi cab mom, and working with a few local agencies who need lots of volunteers. Bekah continues to grow taller, and is still active in theatre, and Jenn is working a lot and Jason is working, and bowling and doing what Jason does.

I don't know when I will be back, but I thought I would check in... just in case anyone still comes by.

Merry Christmas!

2007-12-24T21:21:00.000-05:00

I haven't blogged in a long time- I don't even know if anyone checks this thing anymore....(let me know if you do)... but I wanted to say Merry Christmas to everyone! I also wanted to share a few recent pictures of our sweet Bekah. MERRY CHRISTMAS!

From all of us to all of you- MERRY CHRISTMAS!

At the request of a good friend...

2007-08-21T22:04:00.000-04:00

A very good friend of mine asked me to blog today. So, at that friend's request, I am blogging. Many of you have noticed that I haven't been blogging lately, and that I seem "different somehow." I guess for now, I will just ask you all to remember me in your prayers and let's leave it at that. Thanks to everyone who reads so regularly...

Hopefully, I will be able to blog again soon.

Until then,

Conni

TOO CUTE!

2007-07-23T17:18:00.000-04:00

This picture was taken in Phoenix this past weekend. How cute are they? It's hard to believe that AJ is 5 and Mia is already 3! Mia likes to call Uncle Jason "doggy." SO CUTE!

sorry...

2007-07-20T23:58:00.000-04:00

sorry for the lapse in time since my last post... i am home from vacation (it was awesome!), and there is just a ton going on, so I don't have much time to blog. I will catch up with you all soon!

AHH- Time for a little vaca...

2007-07-11T16:08:00.000-04:00

Ah... it's a good life

2007-07-09T20:15:00.000-04:00

Jason is living it up tonight.

He said, "It doesn't get much better than this... Imo's pizza, hot wings, Bud Light, the Homerun Derby, and an evening alone with my wife!"

Ah... life is good.

(2 more days until vacation in Tampa- where life is also pretty good!)

It's a small world

2007-07-08T17:34:00.001-04:00

Sometimes I am shocked by how small the world we live in actually is. I won't bore you with all of the drawn out details, but here is the short version of the story.

Some time ago, perhaps a year and a half or so, I was on a friend's blog, and I was looking to see if she had any links to blogs of others that I may have also known. Among her list of links, there was a link that said "baby Ira." Snce I love children so much, I clicked on it. On Baby Ira's blog, I read about a very sick little boy. In fact, based on what I read, there were many nights that little Ira was not expected to live through the next 24 hour period. Ira's story, and Ira's family became part of my list of blogs that I read daily. This family also became a regular part of my prayer list, and when they were going through particularly hard times, I asked others to pray for them also. Ira and his family currently live in New York, and Ira has been home from the hospital for some time now. Although he has a lot of medical challenges, and a trache (not sure if that is spelled right), he seems to be an answered prayer.

Today, Jason and I went to St. Louis Bread Company for lunch after church. We were enjoying our meal, when a little girl caught my eye. As I looked over at her, I knew that I had seen her before, but I wasn't sure where. As I continued following my path of vision, I soon saw a daddy, and a little baby boy with a trache. Could it be? Well... yes it could be... and it was.

As they walked past us, I said, "I know you! You don't know me, but I know you... I read your blog!" Before we realized it, we were in a pretty in depth conversation about Ira's continued journey to health, and the power of prayer and having brothers and sisters all over the country (and world) praying for one another.

Who would have ever thought that our paths would have crossed on this side of Heaven?

It was such an awesome blessing to see Ira and his family face to face, to see his smile, to hear Sophia love on her brother, and to see the gratitude in the eyes of his family for our prayers.

I'd like to ask each one of you to add baby Ira and his family to your prayer list. They are a beautiful family, and an encouragement to so many. I know they have encouraged me beyond measure.

Mission Trip!

2007-07-07T11:48:00.000-04:00

Please keep our girls, the rest of the youth group, Jimmy, Amber, Jenny H., and Mike H. in your prayers this week as they are leaving today for their mission trip. Please pray for safety, and that they will be given the opportunity to touch at least one person in a way that will encourage them to give their life completly to the Lord.

Have fun, be safe... we love you.

Oh yeah.... and BEHAVE!

Happy Birthday America!!

2007-07-04T16:23:00.000-04:00

I hope that you all had a great and safe 4th of July!

God Bless America!

Happy Birthday!

More Birthday Fun

2007-07-02T22:08:00.000-04:00

We went out to eat tonight to celebrate Bekah's birthday! She chose Casa (big surprise) and we had a great time. Here are a few pics from tonight!

Now, Bekah is playing with her favorite birthday present... her new iPod...

Happy Birthday Sweetie... we love you and are SO PROUD OF YOU!

Happy Birthday!

2007-07-02T12:55:00.000-04:00

Happy Birthday to you...

Happy Birthday dear BEKAH...

Happy Birthday to you!

We love you!

Freedom Writers

2007-07-01T20:05:00.000-04:00

I know I already blogged today... but we just finished watching "Freedom Writers" and I just wanted to take a second to encourage you all to rent it, buy it, watch it over and over. IT IS A FABULOUS MOVIE!

Weekend

2007-07-01T14:10:00.001-04:00

This weekend has flown by! It has been busy and fun at the same time. On Saturday morning, we hosted a breakfast at Applebee's on Hanley. It was a fund raiser for the youth group's mission trip. We had a great turn out, and we raised over $500! HOORAY! Most of the kids worked hard, and a good time of food and fellowship was had by all. Here are a few picutres...

Thanks to all who came out to support our teens!

This morning after church, there was much fun to be had by our youth group, as Bekah was surprised with a 14th birthday party with her friends! We had pizza and cake, and a great time! Here are a few pictures:

We are so blessed to be part of such a wonderful church and a wonderful group of friends. Happy Birthday Bekah- and I promise.... no more surprises! (until next year!)

bring our troops home...

2007-06-30T21:08:00.001-04:00

Heather Martin - When Are You Coming Home - by Bye2luv

Super Funny Bird Talking

2007-06-29T21:36:00.001-04:00

This bird has more talent than a lot of people that I know! Too funny... He is SO smart!

Due Date

2007-06-29T15:57:00.000-04:00

How many of you out there are wondering if I am pregnant based on the title of this blog?

Well, I am not!

14 years ago I was very pregnant, and very ready to have my sweet baby! It was June 29, 1993, and I was miserable! I was so ready to have her... but she didn't come on time! Maybe that was an indicator that she would grow into a young woman who was very strong willed and very independent! She liked to do things her way then, and she likes to do things her way now!

The last 14 years have been an amazing journey and a ride full of blessings. It's hard to imagine that she will soon celebrate her 14th birthday!

I will post more over the next few days about what a wonderful soon to be 14 year old we have!

Career

2007-06-27T21:23:00.000-04:00

Most of us had an idea of what we wanted to do when we "grew up." Then we went to college, and maybe majored in that subject, or maybe in something totally different. Then we got into the real world and got a job! This job, may or may not be what we wanted to do when we grew up, or what we majored in. Then, while we are working our jobs, we often think.... "I want to switch careers completely!

So, I thought it would be fun to share what our career journeys... So here is mine... I hope that you will share yours with me.

What I wanted to be when I grew up: A MOMMY, and a 1st grade teacher
What I majored in: Bachelor's/ Social Work, Master's/ Counseling (still not finished!)
Present Job: Branch Administrator/ Marketing Director
If I were to switch careers: ???
What my friends say I should be: Florist, Therapist, Attorney

Maybe I should go back to school? Nah.

What about you... ? How would you answer these questions?

Life is like a box of chocolate...

2007-06-24T23:00:00.000-04:00

Jennifer just said a very funny thing, and I thought that I would share. So, here it is...

"Life is like a box of chocolate, if you get one with nuts, you might swell up and die!"

How would you complete the sentence....

Life is like a box of chocolates...

Because of You

2007-06-22T20:21:00.001-04:00

I LOVE THIS SONG- anyone else like it?

Quote of the day!

2007-06-22T20:13:00.000-04:00

Today at work, someone said this and I thought it was too funny! Here is the quote:

"You can't fix stupid."

I guess that is true. You can fix a lot of things, but you can't fix stupid.

Thought for today...

2007-06-18T21:40:00.000-04:00

If you can't... then don't.

It is so frustrating to me when people choose to do things that they clearly have no business doing. Now, if they are learning new skills, I believe that they should have the opportunity to try them out, but not in situations that will negatively effect lots of people. When people make a choice to do something that they are not skilled at doing, there is a great potential to cost others a great deal of time, effort, money, and frustrations.

A baker should not pretend to be a computer genius.
A mechanic should not pretend that he can be a great doctor.
A teacher should not pretend to be a fire fighter or a police officer.

If you can't do it- DON'T!

(yes, this was sparked by a particular incident, but it wouldn't be nice to share the name of the person who thinks s/he is an expert about something that s/he knows very little about... although most people know anyway!)

Oh- that is so FRUSTRATING to me! (mmmm.... I bet I have been guilty of this myself too!)

Make it from Scratch!

2007-06-17T15:38:00.000-04:00

I was just chatting with someone about making things from scratch, and I thought it might be fun to ask you all what your favorite thing to make (or eat if you don't cook) from scratch?

My favorite 2 things to make from scratch are cinnamon roles and chocolate turtle cheesecake!

What are your favorites?

Question of the day...

2007-06-17T00:03:00.000-04:00

White or Wheat?

A Therapist's Nightmare Client...

2007-06-10T23:22:00.001-04:00

Veggie Tales Rock!

Serving others by doing something you love...

2007-06-08T18:11:00.000-04:00

Our youth minister Jimmy, has really put a strong emphasis on serving others- others in the community, the church, over seas... or whoever we can. I have been thankful for the encouragement that he has offered our girls to serve. I have also been thankful that our girls have been willing to serve in various ways.

Bekah impressed me today with something that she did. She learned today that she had a great opportunity to do something later this summer that is an exciting opportunity. It is something that was a great honor to be asked to do. She was excited, but then she remembered that she had already made a committment to do something else during the same time period. She had the opportunity to "get out of it," but she chose to do what she originally committed to. She said, "Mom, it's a no-brainer... those kids with cancer that I already committed to need me to do what I said I would do." I was so proud.

Now, I know that it sounds like I am bragging on Bekah, (which I guess I am), but I am equally bragging on Jimmy and the lessons that he is teaching our kids. I am thankful for him.

I really said all of that to say this... we are called to serve. When we thinking of "service" or "community service" we often think that it has to be hard- but it doesn't have to be. We think of raking leaves, or cutting down trees, pulling weeds, or working at a soup kitchen. But service can be so much more than that. Service can be babysitting, a hug, working a charity event, being in a play that benefits those with disabilities, singing in funeral, making a meal, talking with someone who needs a friend.... etc. You get the point. Service can be anything! It doesn't always have to be dirty or gross, or even hard. Just find something that you are good at, and that you enjoy, and use it for God's glory by finding a way to serve others with it.

We will always have opportunities for service. I hope we will all keep our eyes open for opportunities to serve. Thanks Jimmy for the lesson, and Bekah for the example!

When Graphic Artists Get Bored

2007-06-07T22:41:00.001-04:00

I think I would enjoy being a graphic artist if I got to do stuff like this all day!

A Lesson to be Learned...

2007-06-06T20:26:00.000-04:00

Many of you know that I have an aquaintence who recently suffered a complete spinal cord injury. As a result, he is paralyzed from the chest down. After his intensive care stay and spinal fusion he made a statement to his family and friends as he was transferred to rehab. This is paraphrased, but basically this is what he said:

God has a plan, and I don't understand it, but there is a lesson to be learned here. God got my attention and now I need to listen carefully to what He has to say.

Jesse continued with therapy and after about 10 weeks, he was released to go home. Slowly, his spirits started to fade and he became depressed. He still believes that God has a plan, but now his emotional reaction to his loss has taken over his mood. He wants to know what God wants him to learn. He is mad and sad, and hates the idea that others have to help him now, after being independant for so long. He has started questioning God as to why God had to let this happen in order for him to learn whatever lesson it is that he is supposed to be learning.

The more and more I have thought about Jesse and his struggles, and the more and more I have talked with him, the more and more a new way of thinking has made itself known to me.

What if- what if God isn't trying to use his accident to teach Jesse a lesson at all? Maybe if there is in fact a lesson to be learned, it isn't for Jesse. Maybe it is for his family, his friends, his church, or his community? What if the lesson to be learned is a lesson of service? What if it is a lesson about acceptance, flexibility or disarming discrimination? Is it possible that God is using Jesse's accident as an opportunity to teach Jesse's family what true service and committment really look like? This is just a theory of course, it's just a different way to look at it...

When bad things happen, we want to find a reason for what has happened and Jesse feels like he needs a reason to move on. I suppose it is human to think that when anything happens that it surely has to be "all about me," but the reality is that God uses our lives in so many ways that we don't usually think about.

I think Jesse is right... I think that there is a lesson to be learned because of this tragedy- I am just not sure that it is his lesson to learn.

Muffins

2007-06-04T19:04:00.001-04:00

This is so stupid... it is funny... anyone else think it is funny?

Working at the YMCA

2007-06-04T18:03:00.000-04:00

Today, both of our girls started working at the YMCA! Bekah is working with the theatre day camp, and Jennifer is working with "Mommy Mondays" and Kid Zone. Both girls are really excited and had a great first day. The YMCA is a great place to work, and we are serious when we say that we are committed to building strong kids, strong families and strong communities- and think starting with our own families is a good way to do it.

I am so thrilled that our girls have the opportunity to experience and teach the core values of caring, honesty, respect and responsibility by working at the Y this summer!

Random pics.

2007-06-02T20:09:00.000-04:00

I was looking through pictures today, and I ran across several that made me smile as I looked remembered when they were taken. Each has a story of its own, but I won't bore the world with all of the details! As I looked through the pics, I was reminded of just how blessed I am.

I love my girls so much- they are awesome- I am so blessed. Can anyone guess where these crazy pictures were taken?

Enough already!

2007-05-31T20:26:00.000-04:00

Thanks to all who have sent me emails about my ticket... but the truth is- I CAN PAY THE TICKET- NO PROBLEM! I was just kidding when I said that anyone who wanted to make a donation could email me.

You all are so sweet- but really- we can handle it!

Love you all!

Forever

2007-05-30T21:35:00.000-04:00

We live in a world where marriage is so easy to get rid of. We have a fight- we can get a divorce. If a spouse cheats, we can get a divorce. If we have a disagreement we can get a divorce. You don't make enough money, you gain 10 pounds, you go bald, you lose your job, you ask the wrong question, sneeze the wrong way, or wear the wrong outfit- YOU CAN GET A DIVORCE... it is that simple. It is sad... but true!

Sixty years ago today, my grandparents got married. 60 years! They both have passed from this life, and yet their dedication and committment to marriage live on. Things weren't always easy for grandpa and grandma... they raised 5 kids in a 2 bedroom home, and were happy with what they had. They worked through the death of 2 grandchildren, the divorce of all 5 of their children, and living on one salary for the duration of their marriage. Grandma and Grandpa believed that marriage was forever- they believed that it was sacred, godly, and holy.

In a world where marriage is so disposable, I am so thankful that I had grandma and grandpa's example, (and other mentors too), who have shown that God's way truly is the best way for marriage... forever.

Happy 60th Anniversary Grandma and Grandpa! I love and miss you!

BUSTED!

2007-05-29T19:16:00.001-04:00

So, after work tonight, I had a quick errand to run over in Webster Groves. I delivered an envelope that needed to be delivered, and headed home. Well, I was talking to Jennifer (who spent a good part of the day with me) and my cell phone rang. It was Jason. So, I was talking with him too, and quite frankly wasn't paying much attention. (BAD CONNI!) That's okay, someone else was paying attention for me! It was Mr. Webster Groves police officer. He was a nice man, in a nice car, who wrote me a nice ticket for going 38 in a 25. GEESH! Well, it was my own fault.

Lesson for today... If you speed and get caught you will get a ticket... if you speed and get caught and don't have your insurance card on you, you better be a sweet talker. (Which apparently I am!) But... regardless, unless you are really, really lucky, you are going to be out about 75 bucks! Bummer... I got busted!

To those who regularly drive the streets of Webster, you can thank me for making my contribution to the regular maintenance and upkeep of the roads.

SLOW DOWN!

(anyone who wants to make a donation to the "pay Conni's ticket fund" please email me!"

We Remember

2007-05-27T17:59:00.001-04:00

Happy Memorial Day. May we never forget the sacrifices that have been made for our freedom.

God bless the families of those who made the ultimate sacrifice, and those who are currently serving. My prayer is that not one more life is lost in war. Bring our troops home safely.

Now that was cool!

2007-05-26T23:12:00.000-04:00

We have just returned from Bekah's show, and it was great, and fun, and well... interesting. Bekah did a great job playing the Narrator and the Rabbi in her show. It was really fun to watch. Her narrator role was very Twilight Zone like, and she did a great job holding the audience's attention with the opening monologue. She also did a great job as the Rabbi, which was actually quite funny to see. She was able to show her acting skills as she was sarcastic and straight forward to the other characters, and as she died on stage. GREAT JOB BEKAH! WHOO HOO!

Now she is very tired, and hungry...and very happy that she had such a great opportunity with another professional theatre company!

We are so proud of her!

24/7

2007-05-26T10:37:00.000-04:00

Last night Bekah auditioned for a new show. We don't know what the show is, or what it will be about, or what character she auditioned for. See, she auditioned for 24/7. This is a theater production that in only 24 hours, auditions are held, scripts are written, and performances are given. She auditioned at 8 o'clock last night, the writer's wrote 7 short shows last night, and Bekah got the call at about 9 this morning telling her that she was cast. Now she is in for a day of 11 hours of rehearsal, and the shows will be performed tonight at 8. We are so excited for her. Way to go Bekah!

Say Goodbye to Middle School!

2007-05-24T17:10:00.000-04:00

Today we celebrated Bekah's 8th grade graduation. The LMS Gym was packed with proud parents and grandparents, and although it was long (and hot) it was a nice ceremony. Bekah was chosen to sing the National Anthem at the ceremony, and did a nice job with the other 2 girls in the trio that performed. She also received an award for Drama and a plaque for serving as the Vice President of Choir. After the ceremony, we went to lunch and celebrated some more. Here are a few pictures from our special day.

Bekah wasn't too thrilled about posing for one more picture on the campus of Ladue Middle School. She was ready to say good-bye and move on.

We were thankful that Jimmy was present to share our day with us.

So, now we have one daughter in college and one daughter in high school. When did we get so old?

After the ceremony, we asked the girls what they were going to do now that they both were done with school for the academic year. Both gave the same answer...

SLEEP!

Congratulations Bekah-boo... we love you so much and are so proud of you!

Look out LHS... Here she comes!

More Graduation Pictures

2007-05-20T22:34:00.001-04:00

What a wonderful day it has been! Jennifer is done with high school, and we had a great day of activities to enjoy. Jennifer has the camera with the rest of the graduation pictures on it, but here are few from dinner tonight!

Jenn and Boo are great friends, and a lot like sisters.... in so many ways.

Jason and Jen

We were honored that Jimmy and Amber (and "baby T") were able to join us tonight. They are wonderful friends and have been a great influence in Jenn's life over the past few years.

We asked some random guy to take a picture of our entire dinner party. (L-R) Mom, Me, Drew, Amber, Jennifer, Jimmy, Bekah, Jacki, Jason and Mike.

We had a great dinner... and a great time to be together with family!

Graduation 2

2007-05-20T20:27:00.000-04:00

Jennifer is done with HIGH SCHOOL! HOORAY!

Now, it is time to head out for our dinner reservation!

More to come...

Thanks to Jimmy for the picture!

HAPPY GRADUATION

2007-05-20T16:54:00.000-04:00

... it is Sunday... it is 4 p.m. and we are headed out the door to Ladue High School graduation...
HOORAY!

Stay tuned for pictures and a report of the big evening!

CONGRATULATIONS JENNIFER... WE LOVE YOU AND ARE VERY PROUD OF YOU.

Saturday

2007-05-19T16:22:00.000-04:00

Lots of great things to report....

Happy Anniversary to Jason and me! HOORAY for us!

The CFS Golf Tournament was a great success- WAY TO GO MIKE, ROBIN, AND THE REST OF THE STAFF!

Jennifer graduates tomorrow!

Bekah graduates on Thursday!

Spring has sprung and if you look in our backyard, you will find baby bunnies, baby ducks, baby groundhogs, and baby birds. There are so many babies.... and of course there is soon to be baby Kelley, baby Thompson, baby Wimberely, and baby....??? oops... that friend wants to remain anonymous for now.... (BUT IT IS NOT ME!)

Highway 40 Symposium

2007-05-17T19:24:00.000-04:00

After several weeks of planning, organizing, stressing out and praying, today was The Highway 40 Symposium sponsored by the YMCA. The idea came after talking with a few of Board Members about how we are going to handle the upcoming Highway 40 closures since our branch is in the middle of Brentwood and most of our members work in Clayton. We figured if we are asking a lot of questions and worrying, other big companies must be worrying as well. WE WERE RIGHT!

We sent invitations to 100 local companies and invited them to come hear speakers from MoDot, The City of Clayton, Missouri Public Transit, and other local experts on traffic and what comapanies are doing about this upcoming issue. We limited attendance to 40 companies... (get it.... 40 companies... highway 40....?) Cheesy I know....

Anyway, we had 40 companies call and RSVP, but since the seminar was FREE, we were not sure that they would actually come. We held the event off-site, served breakfast (donated by Balaban's) and lunch (sold at cost by Applegate's). We had great YMCA materials to share with all of the attendees and gave small leather portfolios with the YMCA logo debossed on them and pen and pencil sets to each company that attended! We were well organized and professional- that made me happy.... and made my boss happy! HOORAY!

So, after we set up and got everything in place, the question still remained.... HOW MANY PEOPLE WILL ACTUALLY SHOW UP? I was getting a little nervous...but, would you believe that 40 companies registered and 40 companies SHOWED UP? Wow- God totally answered my prayer! It was great.

The event went very smoothly, and we were VERY excited that Ladue News, the Post-Dispatch and Channel 4 all sent reporters (the Post sent 3!).

I am so thankful that things went so well. I am even more thankful that the YMCA was marketed well, and that we are now viewed as an organization who is a leader in our community who is reaching out to offer solutions to real community issues.

Today was a great day! Praise the Lord!

Congrats!

2007-05-16T21:44:00.000-04:00

Congratulations to Jennifer! Today was her very last day of high school! Sunday she will graduate from Ladue, and we are so proud of her... She has come a long way in the last year, and we are thrilled for her. Last night we attended Senior Awards Night at the High School, where Jenn was honored with a Broadcast Journalism Award. Sunday we will watch her as she crosses the stage and receives her diploma... my oh my they grow up so fast. I remember when she was born as if it was yesterday. We love you Jenn!

Congratulations are also in order for Bekah! Bekah will soon graduate from 8th grade and will be headed to High School. She has been selected to sing the National Anthem at the graduation ceremony too... we are pretty excited for her. Also, she learned today that the all-girl Chamber Singers which she sings with received first place among all of the choirs who recently completed at the Middle School Festival. WAY TO GO!

We have been blessed with two beautiful, smart, and talented girls. We are so proud of you both!

Look Alike?

2007-05-14T20:52:00.000-04:00

Some people just have a face that is familiar. Some believe that everyone has a twin somewhere in the world. But for my hubby Jason, he hears very often that he looks like a couple of different superstars... For those of you who know Jason, what do you think? Do you think he looks like either of these famous guys?

Joey- From NSYNC

Jeff Supan- Former St. Louis Cardinal

What do YOU think?

Gonna Dance the Night Away...

2007-05-11T23:56:00.000-04:00

This week has been an awesome week for our girls. Last Saturday night, Jennifer went to her Senior prom and had a great time. Tonight Bekah went to her 8th grade formal dance and she had a blast too. Both girls looked beautiful for their special events. In fact, they looked so beautiful that a particular daddy that I know and love didn’t really want to let them leave the house without a burlap sack.

Both girls took a digital camera with them, and there were lots of great ones to choose from (including some with a few pretty “cute guys”), but I didn’t want to embarrass anyone TOO much! Here are a few pictures from the dances.

Bekah- leaving the house.

Bekah with a few friends.

Jen leaving the house.

Jen with a few friends.

My, my, they grow up so fast! We have been blessed with two beautiful girls! Oh yeah, and two very EXPENSIVE girls! Do you know how much this stuff costs? Geez… Dresses, shoes, prom ticket, limo ride, jewelry, nails, hair stuff, make-up… and on and on…. Well…. I guess you only graduate from 8th grade, and high school once! They are worth every penny!

We love you Bekah and Jen!

Too Funny

2007-05-07T20:15:00.000-04:00

This too funny...

"After12 years of intense therapy, my therapist finally said something life changing, that brought tears to my eyes... He said, "No hablo Ingles!"

Maybe I am the only one in the world who is laughing hysterically, but in my opinion.... that it REALLY funny!

Lemonade

2007-05-04T22:57:00.000-04:00

We have all heard the old saying, "When life hands you lemons, make lemonade." I thought that this was cool and wanted to share it. Here is a new way to look at an old, familiar saying:

"When life hands you lemons, GOD gives you the opportunity to make lemonade... and if you ask, HE will even provide you with the sugar."

Chicago Pictures

2007-04-27T16:50:00.000-04:00

I have a few minutes, and I thought I would post 2 more pictures from Chicago. I had such a great time with my girls! I love you Boo and Jen!

SO SASSY!!!

The Story Behind the Question...

2007-04-26T19:40:00.000-04:00

What are your thoughts?

http://www.cnn.com/2007/US/04/20/transgender.prom.king.ap/index.html?eref=rss_us

Question

2007-04-24T20:10:00.000-04:00

I just read an interesting story, which provoked me to ask you all a question:

Should a girl be able to run for Prom KING?

I know, I know...

2007-04-23T22:09:00.000-04:00

I know, I haven't blogged for almost a week. My girls, and a few others have told me that I need to pick up the pace and get to blogging. So, in a few short minutes, let me give you an update:

I am tired
Work is going great
Bekah (aka Rapunzel) is loving theatre and her show closes on Wednesday night
Jennifer would like you to know that it only 27 days until graduation
Jason finished the bowling season with a decent average
The Highway 40 Symposium is coming together nicely
The bedroom is finally painted and the new furniture will be here Saturday
My lower back/hip still hurts really badly
Mikki had the all important surgery and did great
It is time to start shopping for prom and 8th grade dance dresses
The plumbing is fixed in the bathroom sink finally
The cost of gas is insane
The weather is beautiful
God continues to bless us

I will try to post pictures soon.

How about you... what are you up to these days?

Say Goodbye Sanjaya- FINALLY!

2007-04-18T21:58:00.000-04:00

Ladies and Gentlemen....

He is finally gone! Thank you for voting him off- American Idol is worth watching again!

Girls' Road Trip

2007-04-15T22:01:00.000-04:00

The girls and I took a trip to Chicago this weekend. We saw the Sears Tower, the Contemporary Art Museum, The Art Institute of Chicago, Wicked, and a million other random things! I have taken a lot of pictures, and I want to share them, but to be honest, I am just too tired tonight, but here is my favorite of the entire weekend!

I love my girls so much! I will post more pictures and comentary on the weekend as soon as I can. I am thankful that we had a great trip and that we have arrived home safely.

The Results are "BACK"

2007-04-12T21:55:00.000-04:00

As you know, I had an MRI this week because it was believed that I had a fractured vertabrae or a ruptured disc. Today that doctor called with great news. I have neither of the conditions that were feared. The MRI showed a large amount of swelling in my lower back, which is responsible for the pain that I am experiencing. Praise the Lord!

So, for now I have 2 choices. I can either A.) deal with the pain with pain killers and work through it until the swelling goes down or B.) Go to PT and be tortured and still take pain killers and wait for the swelling to go down.

I have actually opted for a third choice. I am going to take ALEVE instead of pain killers, and use all of my previous experience with PT to make sure that I am stretching and keeping mobile, and wait for the swelling to go down.

Thanks for all of your prayers. I am thankful that I won't have to deal with anything else major when it comes to my back!

OUCHY!

2007-04-11T21:39:00.000-04:00

When I asked my friend to pray for me about a "little" issue I was having, I didn't expect it to make the prayer list at church- but I know intentions were good.... so I am not mad or anything. Now I just have a lot of questions to answer, so I thought this was a good venue to do that.

First let me say, Yes, I know that I am stupid.
Yes, I know that I broke all of the rules.
Yes, I know that this is all my fault!

So, anyway... this is what happened. About 8 weeks ago, I was standing on a chair, painting. (I know... bad idea.) On top of that being a bad idea, I didn't have shoes on...only socks (very bad idea). I am sure that I don't have to tell you what happened next... Conni came tumbling down... Humpty Dumpty fell off the wall... and it hurt- A LOT....

So with time, I felt better, although I was bruised. Last week things started to hurt a bit more, and by the end of the weekend, I was experiencing a great deal of pain. With a little nudging... I decided to make a doctor's appointment.

Upon examination it was determined that I likely have either a fractured vertabrae, or a ruptured disc. I guess that explains the pain! So... they sent me for an MRI today, and I should have the results tomorrow or Friday.

I am thinking three things at this point:
1. If it was something really bad, they wouldn't have let me leave the hospital.
2. No matter what it is, I will be fine.... I have dealt with a lot already.
3. I will never stand on a chair again while painting!

Thanks for your continued prayers- God is good.

More Decorating

2007-04-09T20:08:00.000-04:00

We had pretty much given up on finding a new bedroom set after searching high and low. We had decided that it just wasn't meant to be. But then.... we stopped in at Ashley's Furniture and low and behold... there it was. It is the perfect blend of what he wants, and what I want. It is just perfect! So, we decided to buy it, and it will be delivered on April 28th!

Now, I guess I don't have a good excuse anymore to wait to get the painting done in the bedroom. I have the new bedding purchased too... so I just need to match colors, and get busy with the roller!

Does anyone know any great little stores that have great decorating pieces? I like Pier One and places like that, but they haven't gotten anything new in a long time and I am kind of getting bored with them! I am betting that there is some little hidden store that has great things that I don't know about.... maybe in Webster or Old St. Charles? (what about an on-line store?)

Anyone have any ideas....??

Easter Ham

2007-04-08T22:06:00.000-04:00

I was with a few friends tonight, and we were talking about what we had eaten for Easter lunch. We started talking about how ham is the most common Easter meat, and we wondered why. A few ideas bounced around the room, but I wanted to see what the internet had to say about it, because everyone knows that everything you read on the internet is true! :)

Anyway, I visited several sites, and here is the most common answer to the question-

Why do we eat ham on Easter?

"Because the Old Testament forbade pork, and in Christ's New Testament the old food laws no longer hold. "

Does anyone out there (perhaps a scholar) have another explanation as to why most of us eat Ham on Easter?

Happy Easter!

2007-04-08T08:43:00.000-04:00

Happy Easter everyone! I pray that you will have a very blessed day remembering the most important thing in life.....HE'S ALIVE!

All glory and honor and praise be HIS for evermore!

The Wizard...

2007-04-05T20:55:00.000-04:00

We all know that the Scarecrow wanted a brain, the Tinman wanted a heart, the Lion wanted courage, and poor Dorothy just wanted to go home.
What would you ask the Wizard for?